My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and he’s already dating someone else. Unfortunately for me, I just found out I am pregnant for him as I have not been with another man for the 3 years we dated so that rules out any ambiguity. We actually broke up because I told him I couldn’t keep maintaining his lifestyle if he doesn’t get a job. How can a grown man depend on his girlfriend and not show any serious signs of earning a living? It got him infuriated and he stormed out of my apartment that night. I already had my mind made up so I never went to search for or call him.
Right now, I don’t know how to tell him without him thinking I want to tie him down with the pregnancy. What should I do? Should I tell him or go through the ordeal of single motherhood myself?