Readers’ Mail: How Do I Tell My Ex-Boyfriend I Am Pregnant For Him?

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My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and he’s already dating someone else. Unfortunately for me, I just found out I am pregnant for him as I have not been with another man for the 3 years we dated so that rules out any ambiguity. We actually broke up because I told him I couldn’t keep maintaining his lifestyle if he doesn’t get a job. How can a grown man depend on his girlfriend and not show any serious signs of earning a living? It got him infuriated and he stormed out of my apartment that night. I already had my mind made up so I never went to search for or call him.

Right now, I don’t know how to tell him without him thinking I want to tie him down with the pregnancy. What should I do? Should I tell him or go through the ordeal of single motherhood myself?

3 COMMENTS

  1. Damn the consequences and tell him! transfer some of that burden you are carrying in your mind now onto him…at least after you tell him..wether he believes it or not, one thing is for sure, he won’t be in a hurry to get the new girl pregnant and risk having two babies

  2. just tell him. he needs to know. If you guys talk and he decides to be responsible and gets a job, won’t you like to have him back? Don’t raise you kid in a broken home. It’s not an easy task. I speak from experience.

  3. YOU’LL HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO TELL HIM. NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK, HE DESERVES TO KNOW HE IS GOING TO BE A FATHER. GOOD LUCK

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