This is more common than you’d like to think. Most ladies are constantly on their toes, watching their boyfriend with eyes behind their ears, watching their man’s every move. It’s also common for ladies to get skeptical if their boyfriend’s best friend is a girl. A lot scarier if she’s hot.
Should you be worried if your boyfriend’s best friend is a girl?
Depending on the situation and circumstance surrounding the friendship you probably have nothing to worry about. Unless if there are signs that something fishy is going on.
So if you find yourself in this situation, here are a few things to do.
Don’t automatically assume the worst
Most ladies assume that any female hanging out with their man has an ulterior motive which might turn out to be false. So instead of making assumptions, carefully analyze the situation before you begin plan hatching
Get closer…. to her
They say keep your friends close and your enemies closer. So you have to get to know her on a more personal level. You might just have a new best friend in town.
Trust your man
Trust is the bane of any relationship. Instead of nagging and criticizing him, support him, trusting that he knows that is doing and would not deliberately leave you.
Don’t be manipulative
The worst thing you can do in this case is to take your cues from movies or TV shows by trying to do something evil to break these them apart. When you start that sneaky underhanded behaviour, it puts you in a weird position
Know when to leave
If you find out, however, that there is something going on the best thing to do is to leave the relationship. If he’s in love with his best friend then the chances of him choosing her and you getting hurt are very high.
Now that you know what to do, go have fun and enjoy your relationship and check out these signs he’s in love with you.